What I thnk...
You have totally missed the point of video games. They are infact, as you said, entertainment. They are to be enjoyed. What makes them different from watching a movie? Listening to music? Reading a book? Its all entertainment. But you're blaming YOUR faults on entertainment. Did games make you stay up until 4 in the morning leveling up your WoW character? No. Did games make you ignore real life to play in a fantasy life? No. You're just using entertainment as a scapegoat for your own faults. YOU spent all those hours playing. YOU spent all that money. So please, stop trying to blame a form of entertainment for your problems.
Oh and video games can very much be social, just like going to the movies with friends.
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